On 5/10 Friday evening we called and talked to security and gave BOTH of our names to see if they had lifted our ban.
The Manager told us to write a letter and bring it in and we did. Last October, we decided to do a temporary self ban to limit ourselves for a bit from our favorite place because we have had way too much fun there :) This May we called to ask if we could have that self ban lifted to celebrate our anniversary. We actually met there and it is a special place for us.
My husband and I have been going to Paradise for years.